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This will say a lot about your relationship with God. When you get a prayer request what is your first reaction?  Here’s the thing, your first reaction followed by your action says a lot about you and your relationship with God.  When I see or get a prayer request, details or not. My immediate physical reaction is to lift them up in prayer to the Lord and my first emotional response is empathy . Simple as that, empathy, love, concern and knowing the power of prayer. Now I’ll tell you something, despite what I write about, what I think about doctrines, denominations, etc. That all goes away at that moment. They are a person just like me, worthy of my love and God’s love, I don’t care about anything else or our differences. The only thing I’m caring about is that they asked for prayer because something is going on and they are seeking God. Don’t sit there and first debate their prayer request in your head, or place judgment before you pray, you have no right to do that. They didn't ask you for that, they asked for prayer. I don’t believe it is ever our right to give unsolicited advice, comments or judgment when there is a prayer request.  Advice for that situation will come from God. Unless that person asks for advice, don’t offer it, and don’t question them, especially if you do not know that person well. Whatever is going on is personal and they have the right not to share anymore details then they wish to, they also have the right not to be questioned, condemned, or judged by you in their moment of need. Because in that moment they are going through a storm and reaching out to God, they are the ones that know full well what is going on, not you. Respect that willing and amazing choice they made to seek out God. Isn’t that what we are all supposed to be doing? Going to God together as His church in unity of faith, belief, support, and love? Watch your words, you have no right to make their storm worse. You have been through your own storms. Remember that.  Remember that you to have once reached out for supportive non-judgmental prayer while you felt like everything was crumbling, while scared, sick and hurt. Never assume anything, no one is perfect and that person reaching out for prayer requests is seeking God, it is not your place to condemn anyone for seeking God or getting in the way of that.  © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

Pedro Lima One would think the answer is no, but alas, why should it be a surprise that I even have a reason to be writing this article? 🤦‍♀️ Some churches are known for requiring or specifying specific prayer postures. I, however, do not believe a church has the right to dictate a person’s prayer position, for any reason.  I consider it quite rude and controlling to do so.  As well as it limits the Holy Spirit from being able to engage with that person fully if there is a demand or script to go along with prayer. When I am praying, I do what my body tells me is right. By that I mean I might be in my office chilling and praying out loud to God, and something deep comes over me and I want to go to Him differently. I’ll move, and either bow my head, clasp my hands while sitting, lift my arms up to Him, go for a walk, or get on my knees.  I do what I feel is needed in my prayers to God. It is a personal and intimate moment that is between just God and me, not a man. I walked into a discussion about “how are we supposed to pray?” Well, that was soon followed up by being told (during a sermon)  we were now being expected to pray a certain way, and anything less meant we were not doing it right according to the gospel of that pastor. No explanations, and no verses to support doing just that one specific posture all the time. It was forced on us within the matter of a few seconds, and I watched as 97% of the congregation went along with it, like the pastor's word was God’s word. This forced situation confused me to no end, and no, I did not comply. The Bible gives us examples of many positions people have prayed in to God, He didn’t care what their body position was; He just cared about where their heart was positioned. King David went and sat down .  The Levites said stand up  and praise God. Elijah paced back and forth . Nehemiah praised the Lord, and then they bowed down . Men lifting up  their Holy hands in prayer. Peter got down on his knees . Moses prostrated himself before God. You can even keep your eyes open and look up  when praying, Jesus did.  Then here, I spotted that Solomon stood at an altar  with his arms spread out, and then he changed positions. All sorts of positions are listed above, not one mentioned as superior to the other. Next, we have Jesus teaching us how to pray. (who btw, prayed in a variety of different postures Himself) When Jesus taught the disciples how to pray, it was words he taught them, not a posture. I don't read anywhere where He leads with “first you have to get in xxxx position, only then can you pray.  No, He starts by saying, “ This, then, is how you should pray ,” and “ When you pray, say: ”  In fact, Jesus doesn’t specify any particular position. I believe this is done for a reason — to stop churches and leaders from dictating how we are “supposed”  to “pray properly.”  Let’s not forget: We are created in God’s image, He gave us abundant ways to communicate. You're really going to unbiblically try and tell me I’m supposed to pray a certain way? I think not.  It’s the position of the heart that matters when praying to God. “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

Slicing up God’s character like a pizza. Klara Kulikova Many only want one piece of God’s character, saying they choose the “ loving God ”, but then ignore the rest of Him in an effort to justify their belief system.  Let me provide an example. My husband: he is sweet, kind, loving, happy, crabby, serious, annoying, stubborn, cheerful, fun, defensive, smart, etc… I can’t just choose one or even two of his characteristics to love and converse with for the rest of my life; I have to choose all of him or none because he’s a package deal, and they are all equally a part of him. That would lead to a rather dull and disappointing relationship if I only interacted with one or two of his characteristics for the rest of my life. I believe most sane people can agree that to love someone is to accept all of their characteristics, even the ones you aren’t particularly fond of. It’s an all-or-nothing deal. This idea that you can pick and choose what characteristics of God you want to believe and focus on is disastrous for your faith. You can’t select, elevate, and revere one above the others and expect a rich and abundant relationship with Him.  www.studocu.com It really is an all-or-nothing situation. To cut God’s characteristics up like a pizza, then pick one piece to eat for the rest of your life, will leave you starving.  I Do Not Change. Here’s the thing: God does not change, and in turn, you can not change God either and expect Him to go along with that nonsense. You have to accept all of Him, even the “God of the Old Testament” that so many have an issue with. Some will call as defense that the Old Testament God is not the same God of the New Testament and that they simply can not believe in that kind of God, yet they happily say they believe in “The God of the New Testament.” Which is quite oxymoronic because they are one and the same. Jane Isley Additionally, we have Jesus stating, “I and the Father are one.”  John 10:30 . Then in Hebrews 13:8  we see, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever!” Your God of Love is also the God of Wrath. Attempting to separate the two, or any of the characteristics of God, leaves you at a disadvantage where you begin to adjust your thinking to the ways of man  and not the ways of God.  When you remove a characteristic(s) you don’t like or understand, then you simply do not know God. It would be an impossibly, because you are removing key elements and pressing the mute button on both yourself and God.  You, and only you, are responsible for that. If you are capable of accepting your spouse, parents, siblings, child, best friend, etc, as a whole, then you are fully capable of doing that with the God of both the Old and New Testament because they are indeed one and the same, whether you want to accept that or not. “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it — not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it — they will be blessed in what they do.” James 1:22–25 “Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.” Colossians 3:16 Acceptance is and always will be your choice.  But it goes both ways; acceptance into Heaven is also God’s choice as well. “Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them. Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Matthew 7:20–24 Sources, References & Recommended Reads: Malachi 3:6 , James 1:17   & Romans 8:13  GotQuestions.org : Why is God so different in the Old Testament than He is in the New Testament? Overemphasizing One Attribute of God by : David Norczyk Bible Study Tools: The Attributes of God: What They Mean and Why They Matter © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

unsplash.com The latest and greatest coming out from Christianity’s mouth is the Old Testament God vs the New Testament God argument.  That somehow they are different (not sure how that works, but okayyyyy) , and people are now declaring they are following the “God of Love,” not the “God of Wrath,” to get away with their assertions.  Well, here's the thing you’ll never be able to argue your way out of. (That’s OT and NT, by the way, just to cover my bases.) How do you think you’re going to argue your way out of that one? Even your “God of the New Testament” is telling you He doesn’t change. You either accept all of Him or none of Him. There is no room between those two options.  If you can’t accept all of Him, then you can not call yourself a Christian, because you are removing vital parts of God that are necessary for your understanding, salvation, and heaven. Once you start cherry-picking the parts you like, then you are guilty of creating a false religion; it is no longer Christianity.  Society might have you duped into thinking you can make changes to the natural order of things, but an apple is still an apple even if you call it an orange.  You may think you are strong for believing in yourself and deciding your own religion by declaring which Biblical God you’re following, but I say it is weakness and laziness.  The loving Jesus you follow, and cling to certain teachings of, said this about the Old Testament: “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17 Additionally, Jesus also stated, “ I and the Father are one. ”  John 10:30 . Then in Hebrews 13:8  we see, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever!” You can’t get around that one, or the next one either. Your God of Love is also that God of wrath you don’t want to follow. Just read Revelation, you’ll be quite surprised. “Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.” Revelation 22:15 “ But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars — they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.” Revelation 21:8 Here’s the link  to look at the original Greek translation of Revelation 21:8, and here  for Revelation 22:15, just in case you’re going with a translation error defense. If you do not know God, He will not know you. You know deep down I speak the truth, you just don’t want to hear it.  You know what is real strength? Your willingness to obey God. And part of that is reading the Bible, learning the ins and outs because there is no contradiction of God’s character; to learn requires work, willingness, acceptance of new information, and being committed to following Him. When you follow Him, truly follow Him , something beautiful happens: you get a new heart. “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” Ezekiel 36:26 When you obey God, you start changing and growing, and the fruits of the Spirit naturally begin to come out of you.  “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22–23 Most people are familiar with these verses, or at least the gist of it —  But you want to see the first part for full context?  The part that people conveniently ignore. “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Welp, think that pretty much covers it.  ©Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook. For more reading: Can I get a slice of God to go, please? IS the Bible a Masterpiece? Are you ready for what is coming our way?

I just discovered a new term recently — “Process Theology,” otherwise known as “Process Theism.” “Process theism does not deny that God is in some respects eternal, immutable, and impassible, but it contradicts the classical view by insisting that God is in some respects temporal, mutable, and passible” (1) “Specifically, process theism is a product of theorizing that takes the categories of becoming, change, and time as foundational for metaphysics. The metaphysical underpinning of process theism is often called process philosophy,” (1) “Process Theology departs from traditional Christian beliefs mainly because of its view of the nature of God and His relationship to the universe. Many critics relate this deviance to the low view of Scripture held by Process Theologians who by and large deny the divine inspiration of the Bible. Others critique Process Theology as panentheism which says that God is to the world as a soul is to a body. It is believed that God is not the universe as in pantheism, but that God is apart from the universe, yet also in it. As the world is in the process of changing, so is God, and he is in the process of becoming all that he can be.” (2) So I’m not even going to touch that yet. I ran into this new to me term from an article that blew my mind with what the person was saying about God and miracles. To each their own, but they used the word “christian” to describe themselves, and I do lower case that because this is not Christianity. Here’s what I started thinking. First — why? Why are so many people willing to do this? This isn’t a divide and conquer situation here, yes, we can absolutely disagree on some minor things in the Bible, but we should be united in God at the same time.  But this labeling crap is just to much. We aren’t “like-minded” anymore; there is so much division, personal opinions, lack of even basic Bible reading, and satan galore taking advantage of all this division. The Harm. There is such harm to be had with these labels, I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve been asked what my religion is, and I answer “Christian,” “follower of Jesus” or “believer” only to be hounded with more questions and sometimes demands as to what denomination or belief system I adhere to.   Why can’t I just be a Christian who reads the Bible? I don’t follow any doctrine, and I didn’t make up my own either; I simply read the Bible. More recently-ish, I commented on an article, and the person commented back, “ With these sentiments, you might be a Baptist and not know it.” I was so confused. First, my profession is not baptizing people; second, my comment was Biblical, not an opinion; third, I know dang well what I am. I don’t need someone tossing a label at me. Isn’t that getting old by now? Too many times, I have encountered people who define themselves by one of the many definitions and labels out there and just sort of stay locked in that definition's dogma without wanting to venture further and have a full-blown relationship with God. Sad to see that, and the division it’s causing among Christians worldwide. You know who just loves division and can really do some work with it? ChatGPT Satan. “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8 “I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them.” Romans 16:17 Division creates deviation. These constant and increasing divisions/labels only cause further and further deviations away from the Bible, which means you get further and further away from God and the Truth.  The further away you get from Biblical teachings, the more you are in the running for the next top false teaching, and can not lump yourself into the Christian category any longer.  “deny the divine inspiration of the Bible” “As the world is in the process of changing, so is God, and he is in the process of becoming all that he can be.” That ☝🏻 is not following Christ; that is not Biblical. Period. Now I don’t claim to know everything in the Bible, and I definitely have stuff I’m still working out, I’m fine with, because that will come in due time when the Lord knows I’m ready.  I also have no qualms about calling out stuff that is not Biblical, using common sense, and the Bible to do so. Not to cause division but to point out the obvious, call out loads of barnacles out there, and hopefully inspire searching out God and truth for yourself. But please, can we stop with the division already? When someone answers that they are a Christian, be happy that they found the Lord! You may have just met the next person you both  are to learn from. We don’t need labels to feel special; we are already special and precious to God. © Jane Isley (1)  Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy : Process Theism. (2) Theopedia : Process theology Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

ChatGPT (Revised article from 12/24, that was 1st published in Never Stop Writing) I was discussing a prevalent view among the church and held by many Christians: the belief that a spouse can’t leave and divorce an unrepentant and abusive spouse. They got it all wrong, and I’m here to help. For years, I have come across comments, posts, stories, and personal experiences regarding this, and it still makes me sick to my stomach when I see it. Too many Christians are still out there in a relationship where their spouse is abusing them, the type doesn’t matter, because abuse, is abuse, is abuse. They finally get the courage to seek help, and what do I still see? Other Christians on their pedestals, throwing Bible verses at people about divorce — that they don’t even understand what they are quoting to begin with, and then finishing it up with, since they aren’t cheating, they can’t divorce the abusive spouse, because that’s a sin. She needs to “hunker down, get the concealer ready, and pray harder” because she’s doing something wrong in the first place. (literal quote in there) I primarily see this nonsense in Christian-based forums, with women being the majority abused AND the Bible verse throwers, believe it or not. But I have also witnessed it in person as well.  In both cases, I would estimate a good 75% of the time, this or something similarly negative or unsupportive is directed at the victim in response. This is still so damn infuriating. How in the world can you say to someone, “hunker down”  and “pray harder”  when they are being beaten, or tell them to stay together for the sake of the children?  I’ve been on the receiving end of that mentality, trust me, divorce and separation from the abusing parent would have been better. Now, I wholeheartedly believe in the sanctity of marriage, and I think that if you make the willing choice to be married, and crap hits the fan you need to figure it out. But abuse goes beyond normal marital issues. I wanted to re-address this issue because it’s come up again. And to offer a Biblical breakdown on this. So if you are a man or a woman in an abusive marriage and you’re getting the Bible thrown at you, you can confidently stand up for yourself with Scripture. Also, if anyone ever tells you to stay for any reason, you have my permission to walk away from those mouthpieces. So we’re going to look at a couple of things because the church is not always right. I started with a Google search of this question: “Is there a sexual component to an abuser’s behavior in a relationship?” Here is the consistent term that kept coming up:   “Intimate relationship” The two people involved in the situation have or have had a sexually intimate relationship. That is typically THE  big power play for an abuser.  That sexual aspect of the relationship is a gateway, so to speak. Because they had intimate relations together, there is an emotional vulnerability in women and men that these abusers use to their advantage, whether immediately or later on. Sexual immorality. Generally speaking, when we are reading Scripture and see the countless references and verses to sexual immorality, the first thing that pops up in our head is sex outside marriage or same-sex relationships. However, that isn’t the only thing that it refers to. Sexual immorality refers to doing anything  sexual that goes against God’s design  (lust, adultery, prostitution, rape, sexual violence and misconduct).   Let me set up an example: Pornography. It’s not stated in the Bible not to watch it, do it, or condone it, but we know from Scripture not to.  How?  Because we applied Scripture, the same application of Scripture should be done in abusive situations as well, but it’s not. Matthew 5:31–32   “ except for the cause of sexual immorality” Domestic Abuse is a Sexual Immorality Because it has a sexual component to it in the relationship. I would think anyone who clicked on this article out of curiosity and read it has had sex and knows the power it holds in a relationship. This is common sense, and if you have ever been in an abusive relationship, you know exactly what I am referring to. I haven’t even gotten to everything else Scripture teaches us about how we are to treat one another. Why all of a sudden does that go out the door in this situation? This is why we need to look at Scripture as a whole, not take one verse and further abuse victims of abuse with it. 1 Corinthians 7:15   “But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.” The abuser has abandoned their spouse in every way possible, and they don’t have to pack a bag and leave to do so. Their actions, their abuse, is abandonment and a break in the marriage vows. Let me bring in another aspect to think on. To hate is to commit murder. 1 John 3:15   “Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, […]” Abuse is attempted murder . I know, quite the leap there, going from talking about yes, you can divorce an abuser, to abuse being attempted murder. In a way, yes, this is a bit of a stretch; however, my stretch holds merit because abuse can and has led to victims (and their children)  being murdered by their abuser. That fact alone stands on its own merit in showing the reality and severity of the abuser’s mind. At the very least, this all deserves an honest reevaluation of Scripture and your stance on believing divorce is not allowed in this situation. An abuser holds hatred toward their victim; they have hatred in their hearts, the “hardened heart ” that Moses and Jesus acknowledged. There is a cycle of hatred and anger built up within the abuser. “ The abusive man hates the woman for continuing to exist outside of him . ” (1) To continually and intentionally hurt someone is literally the opposite of love. While the Scripture does not specifically talk about abusive relationships and if we can divorce a spouse for abuse.  It also doesn’t specifically talk about pornography either, but we use Scripture to know how to navigate that situation correctly. How come that can't happen here? Christians who hold to this mindset, think again and watch your words. I want you to get comfortable somewhere, close your eye and then imagine yourself beaten down, exhausted, depressed, anxious, getting sick, losing weight, crying, criticized constantly, your every move watched, documented, and questioned, not knowing when the next slap will come, not knowing if you’ll be forced to have sex, being isolated, beaten, stabbed, and robbed of your life. Any person abusing anyone can no longer claim they are a Christian; they have turned away from God, and they will stay that way until they are truly repentant. The person they are hurting has been abandoned and should be protected at all costs. I want people to think about these next points when it comes to divorce, and those who still stand by not getting a divorce when a person is being abused and their partner is unrepentant. You are more than welcome to use the comment section and justify to me and God why any of the below is allowed to happen to another human being. Physical Abuse: Persistent physical abuse violates the marriage vow to love and cherish and poses a threat to the spouse’s well-being. Verbal and Emotional Abuse: Continuous verbal cruelty and emotional manipulation can be equally destructive. Addictions: Unrepentant addictions to drugs, alcohol, or gambling that harm the family’s welfare. Sexual Immorality: Persistent engagement in pornography or other sexual sins. (martial rape as well) Threats of Harm: Verbal threats of physical harm or actual physical violence. (2) Abuse is beyond normal marital issues; abuse is damaging on levels you have no idea of unless you have been through it.  Jesus did not say at any point that a person can be beaten, betrayed, broken, abandoned, or raped and take it, no, we are to love and protect.  We also have the duty to hold the abuser accountable, the victim has the duty to protect themselves, and the duty to protect any children involved. “The goal is always reconciliation and restoration, but when a spouse remains unrepentant, divorce may become necessary to protect the innocent party.” (2) The source I just used proves my point on the ignorance out there still regarding the divorce of an abusive spouse. There are three comments; here's the third one. I’ve made my point clear. Anyone who disagrees, you know where my comment section and email are. Need help? If your church won’t help you, walk away; do not be discouraged by other people’s stupidity.  Go to God and call this number 1–800–799–7233 . This is the national domestic violence hotline. I am a very vocal person when it comes to abuse. I have suffered abuse at the hands of many in my lifetime. I write as a Christian and as a survivor of an abusive mother who watched her father be abused for 14 years by a “christian” wife. I write from personal experience and as a Christian. No person should ever be abused; we should never tolerate any such behavior. © Jane Isley (Revised article from 12/24, that was 1st published in Never Stop Writing on Medium.com ) Sources: (1) Lundy Bancroft; Ever Wonder Why Your Abusive Partner Hates You? (2) Wisdom International; Biblical Reasons for Divorce

I read an article last year that pushed me to pray and study deeply about the roles of men, women, and the Church. Lately, I’ve noticed that more biblically based Christians are beginning to write on this topic. To be completely honest, I originally put this article on the back burner. I thought I didn’t need to write it since others were starting to speak up, but our Father had other plans. I first noticed this problem in churches about 10 years ago, but in the past three-ish years, it’s hit me in the face like a brick and I can't ignore it. That’s where this all began. Still, I knew I had to wait. I can be passionate, even hot-headed, for good reason, but that doesn’t mean I should always speak without praying first. I needed time with God first. And here’s my disclaimer: this is not aimed at men. It’s not aimed at women. It’s aimed at every single person who calls themselves a Christian. Because we have a serious problem in the Church, and both men and women bear responsibility for it. Here we go. There is too much bickering back and forth about the male and female “roles” within churches, and people are purposely missing key points and just firing off church doctrine, traditions, opinions, and feelings.  Pretty much everything BUT what the Bible actually tells us to do. What I’ve seen. I have been led to many churches at God’s prompting over the years. Many. And boy, have I watched a lot a crap go down.  There were 3 consistent things I saw with all but 2 churches. I watched as congregations bowed to their pastor as the sole authority. Where people wanted to ask questions or bring up unbiblical teachings, but they didn’t out of fear, and they were barred from actively participating in their own church. I saw women in the background, too shy to speak up, or told not to speak up at all, and if they did, they were treated cruelly or as the church lunatic.  Then I have seen the flip of this and churches dominated by women that did similar to the men who were there, and the men were “jokingly” picked on. Imbalance, lots and lots of imbalance out there . We need to formally recognize and respect that both genders were created spiritually and mentally equal, and both male and female were given dominion over the Earth.  When the fall happened, our roles were redefined for a reason, but our equality never went away, it was mankind that wreaked havoc with that. What we are told. I want to draw our attention to a couple of verses, granted, there are many, however, I can’t put all of them in here. Genesis 1:28   “God blessed them. God said to them, “Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth, and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” 1 Peter 3:7   “You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.” Ephesians 6:1–4   “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” — which is the first commandment with a promise — “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 11:3   “But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.” Proverbs 31:10–12   “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” 1 Timothy 3:5  “If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” That last one says it all. “If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” And there you have it. We are going down the path of divorce. Christians (male AND female)  are destroying the Church from within. The Bible is filled to the brim with how we are to act towards one another, and people just aren’t listening to it anymore. Too busy fighting and subjugating each other. The metaphors about family, marriage, adultery, relationships, etc. are crazy when it comes to this. Jesus is our mighty counselor and our bridegroom, and instead of going to Him for the counseling His bride (us)  needs, here is His bride filing for the divorce of eternity. Spelling it out. People like to say they wish the Bible just spelled stuff out clearly. I gotta tell you, if you’re the one saying this — you aren’t reading it.  From beginning to end, we are consistently shown how to be a bride for Christ. There is an emphasis on marriage for a reason, and clear directions on how to do this. But as the years go by, I see fewer and fewer churches upholding God’s commands and the Bible’s teachings. That is why I say we are in a divorce, or at least the proceedings leading up to a divorce. Jesus is preparing a home for us, and we, His bride, are to be preparing ourselves and waiting for Him to come and get us.  We are far from that. Men and women are not working together in the unity we are to be, the Church is splitting apart from the inside. We see this in society too, all the broken homes and the children left scarred from it.  The same is happening in the Church.  That is why this is directed to everyone, not just men and not just women, because we are all a part of the Church. If we could just stop this infighting, and each person went to God for counseling, things would be so much better, not perfect, but better. I’d love to see the Church on Earth come back together, but it can only happen when all parties are willing to come to the table.  © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

Check this out. 👇 Believe, Worship, Serve, Trust, Love, Pray, Fast, Patience, Obey, Rejoice, Give, Seek, Ask, Kneel, Read, Surrender, Follow, Honor, Humble, Knock, Reconcile, Wait, Repent, Test, Submit, Study, Declare, Guide, Respect, Protect, Lead, Tithe, Carry, Faith, Preach, Fear, Restore, Endure, Rest, Forgive, Teach, Heal, Anoint, Renew, Build, Baptize, Conform, Consecrate, Abide, Praise, ect…. See a pattern? God is the World Cup Champion when it came to creating a definitive, active, and dynamic vocabulary on how we are to be and what we need to do. Don’t think God doesn’t expect you to put in a little elbow grease here. Believing is not, and never has been, a passive “ thing ” that simply exists; it is, and always will be, a daily exercise of the mind, body, and soul. To be a faithful Christian, you must confront and embrace this reality.  You’re in a long-term relationship that requires exercising every part of your being. It’s no different than a marriage or a friendship, where you have constant actions you are exercising and fulfilling to hold that relationship together, make it grow, and keep it strong. If you can do that for your best friend or spouse without blinking an eye, why can’t you do it for God? It’s kind of hard to claim you're a faithful and steadfast Christian without breaking out those gubby sweats and giving it a good workout. Here’s the problem. America has become pudgy around the midsection, it’s become a country of ease, 2-day shipping, InstaCart, and fast food. This mentality has not just touched the doorsteps of churches but has fully engulfed many churches, which are now watering down Christianity into this passive title that people believe they can claim, go on with their day, and that's it.  They don’t do any real work behind the scenes to earn it, so it stays soft and pudgy around the midsection. You want God? You want real faith? You want Him to take you seriously? Then you’re going to have to work for it.  Holding the word Christian over your head like an award means absolutely nothing if you’re not strong enough in your faith to hold up against life’s many lies, storms, and trials.  The Bible isn’t full of action words for no reason. © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

About to blow your mind..... ChatGPT “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.” Definitely a touchy subject, and I’m going to do my best to break this down and explain a few things to relieve some of the tensions out there.  This verse has been used for centuries against women in the wrong way, now I’m talking about human nature, not God’s intention. The two are not mutually exclusive here; when it comes to understanding what this verse means, you have to go back to what God intended it to be, not what man has turned it into. For clarification, I am not some hot-headed feminist, so that is not where any of this is coming from; I’m coming at this based on the Bible and specifically this chunk of verses. Now, normally, this is where I would pull up the word  “submit” in this verse in the original language and present it to you along with other facts, except I can’t in this case. Curious as to why I can’t? Because the word never existed in this verse in the first place.  I’m not kidding. The oldest manuscripts never had that word there.   Breaking this down. First, Ephesians 5:21–23 is split into three verses, but it should be read as a whole, without weight being put more heavily on one section over the other. (How the Bible was originally intended before verses were put in.) “ Be submitting yourselves to one another in reverence of Christ: [the] wives, to the own husbands, as to the Lord; for [the] husband is head of the wife, as also Christ [is the] head of the church, He Himself of the body.” (1) Now let’s take a quick look at the entire passage to get a feel for what Paul was saying, because again, remember, these verses go together. “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now, as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”(2) I apologize, but I couldn’t find a translation that didn’t include submit, so please disregard that for the purpose of what I’m getting at. Meant as a whole. The first thing to notice is “ be filled with the Spirit,”  (remember that for later), then “ Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”  Verse 21 is an equal command to both husband and wife. The submit part there for wives was added later by someone and never corrected or removed, and husbands are directed to love their wives in verse 25 . It is not until verse 24 that “submit” is actually in there regarding women. I’ll be explaining the importance of that as we go on. Ephesians 5:22 Greek and their verbs. From what I have learned, it wasn’t uncommon in ancient Greek for the sense of a stated verb to continue in following phrases or sentences without the verb needing to be restated. Totally get that and not arguing with that.  But the issue is that originally “submit” in that one section still wasn’t there to begin with, yet it shows up in verse 24? When, by going by this rule alone, none of that makes sense, then.  All the other verbs were missed. “Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” The entire point of the passage before verse 21 was completely missed , and “submit” was added where it was never intended to be added. If it was meant to be there, then it would have been added just like it was for verse 24, or added, and verse 24 would have been left blank, and this Greek verb thingy would have applied there.  Verses 18–20 ARE the Bible’s clear definition of what “ Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” means, united. Husbands and wives must first be united, doing the same things, jointly. They were addressed equally in this command. Inference. This was an inference that occurred here because, as stated, it was never originally in there, and they didn’t follow their own rules about verbs. Let’s face it, women have been knocked down a lot of pegs in Christianity, it’s historically proven beyond a shadow of a doubt, and where better to fudge things a little than right there?  So while the emphasis then fell on the women to submit because we are the weaker vessel (that’s not an insult btw) , not on the men. The beauty and meaning of the passage as a whole have been lost and abused. This is a dual command, an equal command to each other, done out of love and respect. Remember, mankind’s rules, moral glitches, and sinful nature are not God’s. Just because someone put that word in there at that time and mankind took off with it, does not mean this is what God wanted. Now, things get interesting. Submit, in the English language as we define it, would not even be the correct word to begin with if people were starting the translation process this days in age. Here’s why — there is a definite, laid-out structure in the marriage unit. The man is supposed to lead the family.  It goes like this — God, Husband, Wife, Children.  Trust me, there’s nothing wrong or insulting about this setup; it’s there for a protective reason. Now we need to understand better what “submit” actually means, because to submit equally using the English definition of the word takes away from the marriage structure that is laid out for us. So we have to learn what submitting ACTUALLY means. First thing — we have  to remove the English thinking and the historical abuse of this word, and look at it fresh without any prejudice, which thankfully, scholars have done, so I can quote you a whole bunch of stuff for you. “Specifically, I suggested that rather than submit, “in context, υποτασσομαι (hupotassomai) probably means to deploy yourself in support of your spouse against the enemy. In fact, I would suggest that a better translation might be something like one of these:” “Wives, support your husbands.” “Wives, deploy yourselves in support of your husbands.” “Wives, arrange yourselves for battle for your husbands.” (4) “Following recent discoveries relating to our understanding of the word hupotasso, many linguists and lexicographers today are inclined to refer to this approach as an “etymological fallacy.” For example, if we used the principles of etymology, we would never understand such words as greenhouse, lighthouse or honeymoon.”  “Hupotasso, according to recent studies, should probably be translated and reframed in terms of “identifying with,” “being united to,” “alignment,” “partnering together” or “supporting one another” (3) “Recent scholarship has made clear the understanding the people to whom these letters were written would have of hupotasso, the word translated submit. It is critical that the Biblical meaning of the word become the standard and that we rid ourselves of inaccurate and misleading understanding through faulty translation. Indeed the English word “submit” is properly translated by hupeiko, with dative “submit to”. “ The New Testament word hupotasso is a common word meaning to be in support of and was used of attached/appended (supporting) documents in the postal system.” “In the context of biblical relationships between men and women, the best meaning of hupotasso is “to identify with or support” (This is an incredibly strong and all-encompassing thought.) It has nothing to do with being subordinate to, secondary to, or subject to. The correct meaning is especially important and clear when considered against the cultural backdrop, that is to say, when it is understood in the light of the marriage customs and the culture of the people to whom Paul was writing.” (5) How about them apples? Now, doesn’t that make a little bit more sense? Jesus treated everyone as equals; in fact, He went out of His way to lift women up from what humanity had done to them. Read The Shocking Truth About Jesus’ Relationships With Women  by Nils von Kalm .  Also, this may not appear to be related, but it actually is. Matthew 19: 4–6 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Bringing it back to Genesis. Jesus brought it back to the beginning, where both men and women were equal, both having dominion over the Earth.  The marriage structure we have now, after the fall (and yes, there is more we could go into, but for today, I think this is enough to start with), is for a reason. Ladies, we are the weaker sex; that's just a fact. Christian men carry a burden we do not, just as we carry a burden they do not, but together the burdens are to be carried as one. It is vital to reevaluate the word submit and understand the marriage structure, what it means, that it IS NOT restrictive and that mankind screwed this all up, not God. If you are both following Christ, none of this would even be an issue in the first place. It never has been in my marriage, and I’m the loud-mouthed, outspoken, spicy one of the two of us, but we both —  “ be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” And guess what?  None of that gender power stuff going on in the world happens in this home. © Jane Isley Sources, References & Recommended Reads: (1) Biblehub.com (2) Ephesians 5:18–23 NIV (3) The Word 4 Life: Hupotasso: Submit, subject or something else? (4) Stant Litore : The Misleading Translation of “Wives, Submit,” … and a Tale of Battle-Ready Women (5) God’s Word to Women: Word Study Abusive Spouses, Divorce, and the Bible , by: Jane Isley. The Shocking Truth About Jesus’ Relationships With Women , by: Nils von Kalm. Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. You can visit me at Faithful Writers  on Medium, where other Christian writers have joined me in sharing the word of God. You can also find me on   Tumblr  and   Facebook.

ChatGPT I can’t even count the number of times I have heard the phrase “the lost gospel” of so and so says this or that. Drives me nuts and makes me sad to see this out there among Christians. They’re treated like some long-hidden conspiracy buried underneath a mountain of security clearance, and it just got whistle-blowen.  The problem, though, is that they were never lost in the first place. Using the word “lost” doesn’t make them special or some secret God didn’t reveal to us. First and foremost, these books aren’t in the Christian Bible.  If you say you are a Christian yet whip out the Enochs, Maccabees, Gad the Seer, Wisdom, Tobit, Judith, etc, when trying to prove a view, doctrine, or use it to object to something in the Bible. You're not even on the right track to begin with. If you're not a believer and do this, then that’s a whole different conversation. Remember, this is God we’re talking about here. The Creator of the whole universe, the Creator of the eyeball, the Creator of DNA.  He didn’t “lose” anything. Dead Sea Scrolls. Yes, the Dead Sea Scrolls were discovered in 1946, and fragments and scrolls  (a few)  of these so-called lost gospels were found, but they were hardly lost; these writings and/or what they taught were already in circulation way before they were found.  There is no giant conspiracy to be had here. Pause for a moment. Do you believe in the Bible and its authority, or do you hold satan’s hand to pursue what you want to believe instead? This is a valid question to ask any Christian who gives these writings any authoritative or Biblical weight. I like to tell people, you either trust God or you don’t; the same goes for the Bible. Either you trust it, or you don’t. There is no mix-and-match game here, so who are you walking with? Not even sure where to begin with these “lost” gospels. Here’s one:  What was found in 1946 was already in circulation during Jesus’s time; they weren’t “lost” as I stated before.  When Jesus was in the midst of His ministry, neither He nor His disciples quoted, referenced, or made those texts authoritative. These “lost” teachings show us the world that Jesus was walking into when He started His ministry. Now, I know a few of you have heard that Jesus quoted the book of Enoch. On the surface, sure that’s what it looks like, until you find out that the book of Enoch took “shall inherit the earth” from the book of Psalms. He didn’t. You can read all about that here . Here’s another: Just because these texts were in circulation among people doesn’t make them correct or authoritative. We have how many books on religion circulating out there now, spinning off all sorts of stuff.  Are you going to tell me those are authoritative as well, just because they quote the Bible or have some spin on it? Another point:  They were already not included by the religious leaders of the day, and for many valid reasons.  Such as, but not limited to —  Proven discrepancies. (Judith 1:1 — Claims Nebuchadnezzar was king of Assyria in Nineveh, but he was actually king of Babylon. Salvation by works and not through faith. Writings about “secret” knowledge. (Gnostic) Contradictory moral teachings. Writings were intended to alter the history of Jesus to suit ulterior purposes. The Bible has a united purpose. These texts seek to disrupt that. The Gospel of Thomas was written far too late in history to have been written by the Apostle Thomas. In one, Jesus is described as disrespectful and spiteful. None were written by prophets. Tobit also includes some freaky witchcraft voodoo stuff, directed by that angel on how to deal with a demon, that's so not Biblical. Some contain elaborate, whimsical, and wild tales that completely contradict the Bible. (Enoch being a big one there) The Book of Judith celebrates the seed of Simeon, even though he is actually cursed; also, the book of Judith praises her lies and deceit. Praying for the dead.  ( 2 Maccabees 12:42–45  — this little nugget is where Catholicism validates purgatory, which btw, is not in the Bible, but is a great financial boon for them.) Giving of alms to cleanse sins.   Tobit 12:9 and Sirach 3:30 (Catholicism jumped on that one too.) Forgiveness of sins by prayer alone. The book of Wisdom used to proclaim that Mary was without sin. (Inmaculate Conception) Parts of Sirach glorify wealth. Numerous contradictions within the books themselves Baruch is absent from the Hebrew canon, which was finalized by the Jewish community long before Christ. “First of all, the Jews have been entrusted with the very words of God.” Romans 3:2   Writers from the different sects in the area took liberties to modify them as they saw fit. I could honestly keep going. While yes, these “lost” books can hold historical value for the sake of understanding culture, what Jesus was walking into, where beliefs, myths, doctrines etc… came from, heck, I owe every one one of them for research purposes myself, but they are far from accurate and ultimately fall short of Biblical inspiration.  The Bible is my gold standard; if a book doesn't align with the word of God, it’s out, plain and simple. This should be your standard as well. Look at it this way: who’s really talking to you? The Holy Spirit or some other spirit?  “But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them — bringing swift destruction on themselves. Many will follow their depraved conduct and will bring the way of truth into disrepute. In their greed these teachers will exploit you with fabricated stories. Their condemnation has long been hanging over them, and their destruction has not been sleeping.” 2 Peter 2:1–3 I know, I know some of you guys are spitting fumes right now at me because you want so badly for things in these books to be true and still claim you are a Christian. But you can’t, I’m sorry, it just doesn't work like that.  These texts/books/teaching/writings were never accepted into the Hebrew canon back then, they were never affirmed by Jesus or the apostles, and lack consistent prophetic authority, doctrinal harmony,  and historical accuracy. You want to use uninspired works to discredit inspired works. Good luck with that.  Ultimately, it is always your choice, but think about your choices.  Do they take you away from the Bible?  Then there’s a problem. © Jane Isley Thank you for taking the time to read, and please consider  supporting my work . Your gift helps keep this work going, blesses others, and means the world to me. 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